Posted by: WittyRuby on: August 16, 2008
Posted by: WittyRuby on: August 8, 2008
Pic: Nature&Human at www3.coara.or.jp/~phoenix/
“…you do not forgive others because they deserve it; you forgive others because you deserve it.” (Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Argeements, restated by Larry Winget, Shut up, stop whining & get a life, p. 159).
Wuh hu, I have done it several times, hehe, so I practised as the wise suggested. In fact, many times I didn’t even care whether the others deserved my forgiveness, I just noticed that I felt at ease when I just ignored their bads, and enjoyed my life. So not that I am a good person when forgiveness is not that hard for me -_-, but because I care very much about my own feelings, I want to sleep well and focus on my studying ^_^. That’s it.
Posted by: WittyRuby on: August 4, 2008
If you are NOT a Vietnamese, this can be an interesting article about the Vietnamese name.
—> http://www.sog.unc.edu/programs/ncmagistrates/2006Springconf/032006Vietnamese%20Surnames.doc
Posted by: WittyRuby on: August 4, 2008
I feel bad that I don’t have good communication skill, as I don’t know what to say, I just listen and don’t have anything to share back. My knowledge is so limited [sigh].
This morning, I work at the library and catch another good book ^_^. Basicly, I should listen more and talk less. What a relief!, as I mostly just listen hehe. Well, I like this part of the book:
“Sometimes, you should not listen…
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Posted by: WittyRuby on: July 21, 2008
Nhân dịp kỉ niệm 3 năm ngày N ra đi tìm đường cứu ….ặc ặk…tự dưng nói tới đây cái có ai bóp cổ N à…ừm thôi để N phát biểu tiếp hen…, hôm nay N …vẫn chưa biết nên làm cái gì để kỉ niệm ngày trọng đại này, thôi lại để cục gạch ở đây ![]()
Posted by: WittyRuby on: July 14, 2008
Posted by: WittyRuby on: July 12, 2008
Posted by: WittyRuby on: July 10, 2008
“In idealization, emotional conflicts or stressors are dealt with by attributing exaggerated positive qualities to others (APA, 2000). Idealizaiton is an important aspect of the development of the self. Children who grow up with parents they can respect and idealize develop healthy standards of conduct and morality (Merikangas & Kupfer, 1995).
Posted by: WittyRuby on: July 4, 2008
I’m ready, let’s go
Posted by: WittyRuby on: July 4, 2008
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